What If You Rewired Your Brain To Believe That Everything Is Always Working Out For You? You Can. I Did. And the Journey of Changing Your Life Begins.
One Purpose for All of This: Relieve Human Suffering.
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Everything Is Always Working Out For Me. And For You. We Just Have to Believe It. Together.
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Take a moment and sit down and write on a piece of paper “Everything is Always Working Out for Me” and repeat it yourself out loud 3 times. How does that make you feel? What comes up for you? What thoughts do you have? Do thoughts start to creep in like “well what about this… and what about that… and my job, relationships, school, kids, finances…”? Do you think, “Those things aren’t working out. So what the hell is this crazy man talking about?”
My name is Joseph Kreps and at one point I suffered from the same flawed thinking. I didn’t believe that everything was always working out for me. I didn’t think that I could just live life and let things flow. Instead of living life on life’s terms, I was always trying to force everything and control every single detail. Sometimes it still creeps back in but now I know how to recognize it and how to deal with it in a healthy and loving way.
In spite of much success in business and in my personal life, I still had those doubting beliefs. Always wondering when all would come crashing down because I couldn’t possibly be deserving or good enough for all of the good things happening in my life. I am a very successful practicing attorney and have a thriving law practice - in fact, I have for the last 16+ years. I am also a Certified Small Business Coach, Certified Professional Life Coach and a Certified Addiction Recovery Coach. In spite of all of this, I didn’t believe that things could possibly stay as good as they were.
The purpose of my life is to relieve human suffering. Period. I do that in my law practice, in my life, in my coaching practice and with the products that I create and sell. Everything I do is centered around that mission. I am not trying to sell you anything here although I have some products and services that I know are pretty fucking good and valuable and can help to change your life - just like they helped to change mine.
Lots and Lots of Life Experience. Serious Life Experience.
There are some of us here on planet earth that don’t learn through teaching or words. We learn by jumping in feet first and making mistakes and figuring it all out later. I believe that I am probably number 1 or close to it when it comes to that aspect of life.
My awakening, enlightenment and ability to release control started with lots of life experience. I would put my life experience, crazy stories and lessons learned up against anyone else out there. I have been through some crazy times, amazing rides and have fought and suffered through many things that would crush the souls of and kill most people. Does that make me better than you or anyone else? Fuck no. It means that I speak from experience and if I can do it, then anyone else can as well. But that really isn’t the point - the point is that I made it and learned some really valuable shit the hard way. As Steve Jobs so wisely said, “you can’t connect the dots looking forward, you can only connect them looking backwards.” Now I know beyond any doubt exactly why certain things happened and why I had the experiences that I had. My goal is to share the healing methods that I used so that I can help relieve suffering for other humans.
Until the last few years, I never really believed that everything is always working out for me. I always struggled when things weren’t so good and if things were really, really good then I felt like I didn’t deserve the success I was experiencing. So, I was damned if I do and damned if I don’t. About 3 years ago when I was deep within the infancy of my healing journey and all within a matter of hours, three people in my inner circle said the same thing to me - “Oh. Ok. I understand. It’s like you are always waiting for the other shoe to drop.” Bingo. I didn’t really know what that meant but they did and once I learned more about that phrase, I realized that it was the driving and controlling force of my life.
Through lots of divine intervention, some very good people strategically and magically placed in my life, processes, modalities and some very difficult work, I am now free of all of those bullshit limiting beliefs that were holding me back. Am I perfect? Hell no. Is my life perfect? Nope. Do I still deal with the same bullshit as before? Yep. But the difference is how I deal with it. And how it impacts me. And how I don’t get triggered any longer. And I know with all of my heart, mind and soul that everything is always working out for me. Everything. Always. And it is all working out for you too. You just have to rewire your brain, shatter some beliefs and believe it.
What Does ‘Everything is Always Working Out for Me’ Mean Anyway?
Many people don’t understand the meaning of the phrase “Everything is Always Working Out for Me.” They say things like “well that is just bullshit because it’s not true.” Or “what about all of the bad things that happen.” It fucking boggles my mind that people would actually argue with me and say that things are not always working out for them. It’s nuts - there are people on the planet that would actually argue to me that things are not always working out for them. Those people are my biggest projects and my human self tells they are not my people. But really they are because people occasionally listen to what we say but they are always watching. And if they see the changes, then they wonder how they too can experience this type of magical life.
This mantra, statement of purpose, mission in life, etc. , doesn’t mean that nothing “bad” ever happens in your life. It doesn’t mean that you are perfect all the time. It doesn’t mean that you don’t have struggles or things that normally cause suffering. That’s not it at all. It means this - no matter what happens to me, outside of me, out in the world, those things said or events or problems cannot and will not affect me on the inside in a negative way because I know, trust and believe that everything is always working out for me. It is a life well-lived with the knowing and the certainty that we are all here, together, all connected, all part of a divine plan and thus, nothing can shake you, destroy your inner worth within or disrupt that. It means that if someone you don’t know pisses you off or is mean or rude to you that it flows into you and then flows right back out. It means that you don’t internalize that junk and that bullshit and allow it to cause you suffering. It means you let go and go with the flow.
It means that if someone you know and love and trust says or does something to you that hurts you to your core that you let it flow into you and flow right back out. You don’t react and lash out and cause further damage damage to the relationship or the situation. It means that the shit they are saying or doing is all about them and has nothing to do with you. It means that you understand that most of the things that humans worry about and have an issue with is all total bullshit and not worth our attention. It means that you understand that sometimes people have a bad a day and you should extend them some grace and mercy and forgiveness and not overact and go bonkers over it with them. This too shall pass.
It means that if you don’t get accepted to that college or professional school that you applied to that everything is still going to work out and your life is not over. As human beings, sometimes we have so much trouble just living life on life's terms and allowing life to unfold. We can all do a better job of being mindful of this issue and work on healing it within ourselves.
It means that if you or a family member get arrested that it is not the end of the world. In my law practice, I deal with people who have been arrested and people whose family and friends have shunned them for things that they may have done. Sometimes it is very easy to write off someone who has done something bad. Understanding that everything is always working out for us is knowing that no matter what you might do or what act you might commit that it is not the end and there is always hope for you to turn it around.
It means that if you or a family member are struggling with an addiction issue that the problem does not define you and is something that can be treated and overcome. Many people do not understand that addiction is usually and almost always a symptom of an underlying issue that someone is trying to self-medicate, escape from or mask. If we recognize this and recognize that everything in the end is always going to work out for us then we know that once the issue is resolved internally then the healing can begin. It also means that people can change. Many times people are just written off for making “bad choices” and this usually does more harm than good.
It means that if you don’t get the job that you have always wanted and applied for that everything is still always working out for you. It means that you trust in a divine plan and that many things are above your pay grade and not within your control. It means that you understand there are forces at play that sometimes we don't understand and many times we question. As I have lived my life and practice law now for 16+ years I can say with certainty that I have dealt with many, many terrible situations - personally and professionally - and it always works out. And close to 100% of my clients would say the exact same thing.
It means that if your kids turn out differently than you anticipated then that is exactly how it is supposed to be. I watch it all the time - parents don’t recognize that kids are actual human beings - people trying to make it in the world. And they micromanage and try to control every single thing about their lives. And it usually does way more harm than good. If we heal ourselves and we are not hurt any longer then the phrase “hurt people hurt people” doesn't necessarily apply any longer. This is huge because we are not been projecting our shit on our children and on those people around us. We allow life to unfold on life’s terms and don't necessarily get caught up in many of the things that the world worries about. It means that you get to live life with no regrets.
It means that if one of your parents, other family members or close friends pass on from this life that it doesn’t send you off into a deep depression and cause you to carry around loads and loads of guilt, sadness and grief. You can experience the dying process with a parent in a loving and calm way and appreciate the lessons and the perspective and profoundly spiritual experience that death brings. Death, my friend, is the great teacher of life. You can live a life in the present, without fear and knowing that everything is always working out for you.
It doesn’t mean that you walk around with your head in the sand and that no action is required on your part. But the action is different - it is inspired action based on your flow and divine inspiration. When we try to control everything, we put ourselves in the prison that is our own mind. Trust me when I tell you based on personal experience and the experience of my clients, learning how to live your life from the perspective that everything is always working out for you is the most freeing thing that you can possibly do.
So What the Hell Is the Point of All of This?
Very good question! The point is simple. Each and every human being can use the power of his or her mind to change their thoughts and rewire the brain and therefore, change their life. Every human being deserves to know the truth - that everything is always working out for us - if we do the work and if we believe it.
This is fairly easy to understand but hard to do. It is the human condition. We stray away from these things as we get older due to trauma, stress, environment and how we internalize things going on around us. We can dig deep and change those thoughts within our subconscious mind that are no longer serving us.
I never had anyone tell me when I was younger that I shouldn’t internalize the things that I was seeing and hearing. I never had anyone tell me that the things that other people were saying and doing had nothing to do with me. No one ever told me that adults don’t have their shit together and they are just trying to make it like the rest of us. And that is my life’s mission - to help people to understand not to get jammed up in other people’s energy, not internalize things and let them destroy you from the inside out, have a better feeling thought, have a better reaction or response and learn to enjoy life. My life’s mission is simple: to relieve human suffering.
Life is supposed to be fun. It really is. It fucking drives me crazy that some people argue the opposite! Really? Really? You are really going to argue that life isn’t supposed to be fun!!!??? This doesn’t mean that you don’t have to go to school, work, contribute, etc. but it means that your worth is not determined by those things. It means that even if you cause your parents lots of grief or you do stupid shit that it can still be fun. It doesn’t mean that you won’t have to deal with some suffering, some pain, some lessons - it means that you deal with it differently.
The point is to not get caught up in what the world thinks and to dive deep within yourself and rediscover who you are and why you are here. You are enough. You are worthy. You are love. And you deserve all of the good things that are stored up for you. You just have to work on being in alignment with who you truly are.
At Changing Your Life, LLC, we believe in you. We want to inspire you, give you hope and help you to work through any suffering that you are dealing with - recognizing that changing your thoughts can change your life. We are firmly committed to this value: you have within yourself all that you need to be a happy, calm, peaceful, naturally creative and resourceful person. Our task as your inspiration or your coach isn’t to create a new you, but rather to free that person within yourself to be all you can be.
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